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I was vacuuming upstairs today and have been thinking about love, what it is, why do we feel it, why is it in some places and in some places it is totally missing. What is higher, love or hate?.. Love is not a religion, it is life in itself, we can heal people just by the thought of love, unconditional love. How do we wake another up to have a feeling of true love?. Why do people argue all the time?. I have hardly argued ever, and when I have, I feel really bad as if it is not me. I don’t like to argue at all, in reality. When I do argue, people do remember it, its as if my arguments are the only ones they can remember, even if its once a month, and another argues four times a week, mine always seems to be remembered. I find it really unusual, because when I do argue, it is for the sake of happiness, I argue because I don’t like arguments, and tend to step in for the sake of the people I love. I like to be a calm person who just likes to see life the way it is, a happy nice warm home, a happy nice relationship, nice happy children, happy friends happy pets.. everything just being happy. How come people find it so difficult to be happy and loving? As black eyed peas sang it, where is the love? .. lol. I have been thinking lately, what would happen if I go through a really really bad patch… would I too start hating really badly and arguing? I guess sometimes we would never know, because it is a difficult emotion to handle, I wonder if I would be able to not feel any hate, since I do feel like I can be calm if I really wanted to. Then I thought, what if I lost something which I had no control over, and it wasn’t my fault at all, would I be hating all my life?, would I be able to sort myself out?.. I dunno, i’ve been through bad patches and resorted to alchohol, drugs and other stuff to try to get myself through bad patches in life, but what if I just tried to carry on and see what happened. Everything seems to happen for a reason I guess, some are strong who can beat the odds, some feel weak, like I did, I was young, didn’t know much about life, see what other people do, and you tend to follow it, to keep yourself strong, but I think there are other ways to stay stronger. My elder sister always tells me now, that I am much stronger than whatever is happening to me, it gives me faith, and hope, thats all we need in life though, someone to keep us strong and make us think of who we are inside, and not outside. I wish for everyone out there to have someone who keeps them strong when in times of trouble, it is the only way to continue loving life.

Today is Sunday March 8th 2009, and it is the International Womens Day. A great day to aknowledge all the great women in history and out there. Every woman is great in her own way, to me I would like to dedicate this day to the one and only –> My mom, She truly is the best in the world, and to me the bravest, calmest and most couragious woman that ever existed. Shes been through a lot, and yet still tries to remain calm and patient, looking after her family and of course her husband (my pops of course).

I was thinking hard the other day, about who could be the greatest woman in history, there could have been loads I could write about from Mother Teresa, Indira Ghandi to Princess Diana, but I don’t know them that well, and never even met them. So I thought I would look a little closer to home, and there was my mom sitting right in front of me, nobody has a clue how much pain she has had to go through, from her early years of marriage, to losing kids, grandkids, ilnesses and suffering a stroke, to not even being heard properly in life and lots of other things that would make some people think wow, shes a brave girl. My mom is the most honest and complete woman there could ever be in the world to me, she has taught me a lot of things even though where she grew up in India, there wasn’t even a school and in villages in those days they hardly sent the girls to be educated, yet she has the most simple logic and sense I have ever come across. My mom also has a lot of love to give for her family, shes the only one I have ever talked to and learned a lot from, we still walk hand in hand whenever we want to go for walkies, shes like a rock to me. Everyone always looks at us funnily because I’m a grown up adult, yet I’m probably the only one in my whole city who isn’t afraid of holding my moms or dads hand, to me its a sign of caring, something they have taught me, I always look around to see other people doing it, but in 26 years, I have’t come across anyone at all who holds their mothers hand anymore.

My mother hasn’t made a lot of money, sorted out a community, or changed the world, but she certainly has changed my world for me all my life, whenever I come across problems in life, she has always been there for me, and thats why I respect this woman more than any other woman that ever has existed, she is like a god to me, and I think everyone should dedicate this day to their mother, sister, aunty,… or who ever has been there for you when you really needed to talk to a woman about problems that nobody seems to understand. The woman is the producer of life, the earth in hindi is also named as maa, so every woman should be respected and treated good in life, no matter what they have or haven’t achieved, they are friends to everyone and deserve all the respect they could get from everybody everywhere. I’m glad that the world is finally giving the recognition they deserve, the only bad part about it was that its only been a hundred years or so since this day was established, it should have been a lot earlier, that way the woman would truly have known a lot earlier just how powerful she really was. A woman I always say, is far more powerful than a man, I’ve felt it first hand, and it truly is remarkable at how they have been created..

Ray

Ps.. Please visit, http://www.internationalwomensday.com for a lot of information about this day, also if you want to join this blog and write something about the woman who is special to you, even if it is yourself, feel free and go ahead, don’t be shy.

The world is truly changing. There is fear everywhere and everyone is glued to whats going to happen to their lives and situations. Everyone I have come across has some form of fear, anxiety or form of stress, even I have myself I admit it. But what is the cause of all of this?, where is it coming from?, how are we allowing it to affect the way we are or are supposed to be?

Years ago I remember I was sitting in a bar with some friends and I was asked by someone who was studying phychiatry what is the difference between a computer and a person? This question has always stuck in my mind. To me there is no difference at all, computers are programmed, we allow ourselves to get programmed in probably the same way. Computers we put in what we want to put into them and it works the way we want them to, they have a hard drive for memory, just like we do, they have a CPU (Central Processing Unit) and so do we, they have a fancy cover like a case.. and so do we. But who puts information into us?.. how do we allow that information to be put into us?. Computers are joined together through a network so they can communicate with each other and we are joined by our own circle of people who we share information with. This is another reason for this website, it is for serious people to join and share information, whether it will be something. I would like people to try to programme a more happier feeling to their world, beause there is already far too much negativity around, sometimes this negativity is here because we can’t help it, it is brought in even though we ourselves are trying as hard as we can to keep trying to stay happy. I have read so much in my life that all I can do is just know that happiness is a feeling which we are born with, it is the only positive thing most people have in their lives. If we can learn to share our ideas of what problems we had and how we got through it, then we can help more people, this in itself will make ourselves feel a lot better inside. I am generally not a negative person, I try to stay positive most of the time, but I want to be more happier and the only way I can do this is by trying to grow more spiritually aware about people around me, I don’t know how fully yet, but one day I hope I will find out. All I do know is that everything affects everyone in some way or another, sometimes by choice, sometimes by force. What can we learn from these experiences? I want to learn so much about this now that I am ready to put my whole life into it, I am very aware and my goal in life is to one day atleast know that I did try to unlock some hidden meanings of life. The dalai lama says that the purpose of life is to achieve happiness, true happiness for me would be a happier world.

Ray

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